What is this page about?
This sites intention is the help you discover or connect to your true self. Your true self is who you are before you were conditioned into who you are now. We all start with the basics of inherently knowing how to Eat, Sleep, Smile and Cry. Everything after that we learn from other people. This creates our current programming. We don’t always receive good programming and when we are young we don’t know to challenge the beliefs and prgramming our family installs in us.
As you go through the discovery process you will find areas in your life that need to be reprogrammed. The tools you need for discovering yourself and healing yourself are on this site.
What does "Life Equals Love" mean?
I believe life is about love. It seems so much more complex. But if we zoom out far enough it seems like there is an overarching purpose to life and, it is learning to love each other.
After being born, one of the first things a child must do to survive is establish a relationship. It’s usually pretty easy because it is usually our mother, but if it’s not the mother, then rest assured, it is do-or-die. Without that first relationship there is nobody to feed the baby and it dies.
If our very first task is developing a relationship, it makes sense the purpose is learning to purely love each relationship.
What is Love?
My definition of pure Love is “Accepting another person without judgement”
Love only gets complex when we are being judgmental or aren’t accepting of another person’s journey.
Is there purpose after Relationships and Love?
Love is the common denominator to every emotion we experience, no matter what we are doing in life, love is involved some way. Everything we do involves relationships of some form, and every relationship involves love at some level. It could be siblings, parents, family, romantic, platonic, business partner, strangers or even enemies…Love includes EVERYONE.
If we accept that love is part of every endeavor and work to incorporate PURE LOVE into our relationships, we can find symbiosis with our relationships and ambitions in every aspect of life, from social to work, business and home.
Learning to love and accept other people isn’t a full time project unless you make it one. While you’re learning to love you can also learn who your authentic self is and learn to love what you find “purely”. Learn to heal, learn to love and appreciate your own journey, learn to become an accomplished person at anything you want to spend time doing. When you choose to discover your purpose. This world can be enjoyed or it can miserable. You get to choose
Why is reprogramming hard?
Our brains operate in the theta state until we around 7 years old. The theta state is where your brain is most open to suggestions and ideas. It’s like being hypnotized. After 7 years old your brain pattern and function start to change and your brain isn’t as malleable. Although, the brain remains very open to learning new tasks and ideas until the prefontral contex is fully matured. After this point in time, the brain doesn’t learn as easily as it did when it was younger. As long as your mind is healthy, your brain will always be capable of reprogramming, but it gets harder. Your prefrontal contex develops until around age 25.
Reprogramming is just learning a new way to think about situations and about yourself. But your brain has been conditioned to think about you the way it does for a long time. You’ve been developing your programming and using it for many years. It makes sense that your mind would want to go back to its old programming when you’re not consciously making yourself aware of your thoughts. The most important part of the reprogramming process is to stay aware and observe your thoughts as much as possible. Correct yourself when you think in a way that doesn’t serve your new programming or belief structure.
What is Your Programming?
To learn more about your programming check out this article.
How I can help you...
I have developed a simple set of tools that help you understand your current programming, understand how the programming is affecting relationships around you and whether or not your programming is limiting your personal growth potential.
I’ll give you tools you help you untangle the mess made by programming that don’t serve who you want to be.
I’ll show you how to stop the cycle of repeat problems in your life like attracting narcissistic people, cheating, or feeling judged.
Most importantly, I’ll give you tools to reprogram yourself.
Where do you start?
Go to the Healing Journey page.